What's up with all of this sexual harrassment these days...

So i was going to make a video about this but i thought, im not in the mood to put on make up so..I'll just write this. As always, excuse spelling, ect..im writing this in a hurry. All we see in the news these days is sexual harassment and many people..men and women wonder why it has taken so long for these stories to come out. So I'm going to take a few moments to logically talk about this.

Understand I'm not man hater, and honestly while my best friends are female..I have more male friends in general...but guys, men..are you REALLY this suprised to find out that men in positions of power used this power against women, or tried to at least use their status to get laid? I'm not, I'm not in the least. I mean I can't walk through a parking lot without some dude trying to get my number. Not only that I have had actual conversations with men where i tell them that its not appropriate to just hit on women in every situation..and you know what I was told in reply??? Well what if I miss a chance to get with someone becasue i dont walk up to her in a parking lot or gas pump. That's right men are more concerned with getting laid than the very real fear and uncomfortable feelings this causes women. SERIOUSLY. So no first of all I'm ot suprised and yes, I'm inclined to believe women. Men like a conquest..no I dont get it. I think often a man just wants to "win" (aka have sex) with a women..again, yes i believe these women.

There aren't hordes of women out there trying to get you in trouble for talking just talking to them. Talking about sexual harassment and God forbid rape is a hard subject for many women. It causes fear and embarrassment. Now that women are coming out..I think its getting easier for women o say, hey thins thing happened to me..and I need to say something. In some cases its spanned by politics obviously..but it has all sprung from the same well of.. the current me too movement. I literally heard on talk radio a women stating that women are at fault if they show cleavage or wear a short skirt. This proves this kind of thinking is still out there. Its like saying if you forget to lock your door then you can't get robbed or the robber has a right to your things.. What is this kind of thinking??? ugh. Yes the me too movement has made women think about things they pushed down and feel able to talk about it. this really shouldn't be hard to understand, unless you have never been afraid to lose your job..or worse at some point. I have, I've been there.. and it feels gross. I ignored it..I had stuff to do..but that doesnt make it ok.

Look guys I have, through my life had various men say, touch and do inappropriate things. I've worked with men who have been grossly inappropriate..and met guys who claim to have a job for me..but really just wanted alone time with me. All of these things happen..and I for one *late or not* am glad these things are coming out. Men shouldnt have a "casting couch", sleeping your way to the top shouldnt be an option. It holds women like me, women who do not do such things..back. So yeah, late or not I'm glad men are being called to the curb. Hell most of these men (I'm looking at you politics) are suffering no consequences for their actions. so save it people...i don;t feel bad for men.

Now look I'm not saying being sexual inappropriate is the same is harassment or harassment the same as rape. It isnt the same, its all different..but the fact is none of it should happen. I'm not looking to send men to jail who haven't committed an actual crime..some of these man have no committed crimes..
but they are still NASTY.
they are Nasty Men. (HAHA)

I have an idea for many of you men out there worried about getting in trouble these days.Here is what you do..don't have sex or solicit sex from anyone you are not in a relationship with. Have a relationship with only one person at a time. Don't randomly touch women/men you aren't in a relationship with or related to. Most certainly do not talk about sex in the work place. Do what you want but old tried and true rules of society need to come back...and if the men in trouble right now had followed these rules none of them would be in trouble. Stop thinking with your dick ALL THE TIME. I get a lot of people won't like what I have to say there..men and women..but that's ok. i'm not telling you what to do with your sex life, but after reading on social media about how "afraid" men are of being taking to court over their behavior, maybe some of y'all need to slow down. It REALLY isnt that hard to act appropriately in public.. really. If you can't learn to interact with society..then takle a step back..and follow my rules of engagement.

OH..adding this as a post note: DONT HAVE SEX OR RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE UNDER THE AGE OF 18. I shouldn't even have to add that one. No, I dont care what the age of consent is on your state.. just don't.

You can, can your Holiday, religious negativity

First of all I love holidays. all of them. To be honest whatever your nationality is or religion, there is a decent chance I'd be up for celebrating whatever you are celebrating. Everyone always says stuff like...i dont need valentines day to be romantic or Christmas is to commercialized...but the fact is, most people actually do need to be reminded to be romantic and most people do need a reason to be more giving.

I love getting all wrapped up in it too. I want to dress up every Halloween and have a special night to decorate the house for Christmas. I want to wear green on St. Patrick's and drink a good Irish Whiskey. Life is short, the moments and time we have here to be together is limited..I want to make the most of every moment.

...and yes, I am religious. Your feelings on my upbringing are moot. It's really none of your business but I'm going to clue you in anyway. I really don't even care if there is a God or not. That isn't the real point is it? if there is a God I'm doubtful he would want me to be a good and thankful person just becasue of his existence. If you truly understood family, spirituality and community...you would understand that. Many of you don't, many people who are devout don't, that's ok...but don't try and put me down becasue you don't understand me. Or do, in the scheme of things I imagine it doesn't matter to much what you think. Believe me when I tell you, you have a God too...you have a set of belief's you adhere to. Maybe that God is science, maybe it is politics, maybe it is many things..but you have your core theories too.

 

So what is my point in this post??... I don't have time for your negativity. I don't care that you hate Christmas or Halloween or Memorial day. I don't care about your graph showing me that Christmas came from aliens in Egypt or whatever. I'm not interested in how romantic you think you are without Valentines day. I was lucky to be raised in a family steeped in tradition, values and love. I'm sorry if that wasn't your experience. I remember having the family over at Halloween and my mom always making us all Chili. I remember waking up to Santa, heck even now if I'm home Santa still comes. (#Ibelieve)  I remember my dad always getting my mom flowers on Valentines day and us kids always getting candy. I remember numerous memorial day picnics...and I'm sorry if that wasn't your life...but I'll keep celebrating each and every holiday. I'm going to keep making memories with my loved ones. I'm going to thank God on Thanksgiving for another year and I will try and keep Christmas in my heart all year long. I'm going to celebrate life every chance i get.

So as the holidays approach if you post something negative..I'll probably link this blog post for you to read. I hope those of you who haven't learned the true spirit of well..any holiday really, will catch a little magic in your heart this year. To everyone else May God bless you and keep you during the holiday season.

That time I got into a physical fight at the movies

Yeah, this is another true life thing that happened to me. I have to share it, its to crazy not to share. It furthers the whole idea that I think my life isn't reality, and I'm really just some character in someones story. There is no other explanation for the events that transpired last night.
I was at the press screening for IT. I had been waiting for this one all summer and I was fairly excited to see it. I've seen the movie from the 90s, I've read the book and I have my own fan theories that revolve around Pennywise, the crimson king, randal flagg and the devil..so yeah, I wasn't someone just there to be scared by an evil clown. I'm invested in this series. I'm not there to just talk pointlessly through the whole film..I'm a super fan.

When I go to press screenings I always try to get the names of the other bloggers and film reviewers because one of the best ways to spread your blog is to cross promote with other blogs. If you are a full time blogger that makes money you know this..if you are still trying to figure it all out you might not. Perhaps this person in question doesn't know this..in fact as I later found out he works at a movie theater, I'll go ahead and guess he doesn't. At the last minuet right as the previews start to roll a gentleman sits next to me (he wasn't there earlier) and I ask him, who he wrote for. He tells me and some.. disgusting blob of a man leans over and tells me "SHHH! Be quite"..during the previews..for blade runner 2029..a film any film reviewer worth his salt has already seen the trailer for anyway.

I lean over and we...have words. that is the nice way for me to put it. I then lean over to my crew to talk about it (both the film and what just happened)..and he again gets..confrontational..I put my hand up in a stop motion and tell him to mind his own business and that's when he hit me. Yep the neck beard actually smacked my hand..with a little bit of force I might add. If you are curious as to what the man looked like, imagine this guy with more hair...

I sat there, attempting to control my breathing before I ended him. I couldn't..my breathes came at an ever increasing rate and I could feel my blood pressure rising. I tried to just sit there..I really did..but once we were at the ten minute mark of the film..I couldnt control myself any longer.. I could hardly breath. Counting was not helping. That man needed to be taught a lessen..I got up and purposely fell on him..pushing his shoulder and giving him a slight gut puch as it happened. Easy enough for me to claim it was an accident..but unmistakable to him what was happening. I stormed out of the theater, waiting for him....right at the edge of the door way, watching the film and giving him and ample five minutes to be a man and get up and meet me outside. He didn't... I considered buying a beverage to dump on him as I returned..but i didnt want to waste the cash.

What is wrong with society? Why would a grown ass man think its acceptable to first of all talk like that to a women he doesnt know (during the previews, REALLY?)..and then to actually put his hands on her. What a weak silly little man.  Aweful big and manly of you to hit a girl, huh? I could see if perhaps I was loudly talking all through the movie..but a single question to one person..get over yourself. If a perfectly quiet atmosphere is what you need, the public isnt the place to get it. Grow up. Not only that but throughout the entire film I heard people talking(not me though)..becasue thats what movies are for, to enjoyably share the experience with a crowd and talk about it. That is the whole point. Perhaps loudly talking so that you can't hear what is being said or talking during the whole film isnt acceptable, but enjoying the film..well it is. It's fairly easy to know what is ok and what isnt..if you can't tolerate any level of disturbance..perhaps you are the one disturbed.

I admit I have a terrible temper. Unlike most females, i strike back. Let this be a warning to said overly aggressive men everywhere..don't think just becasue you are talking to a women that you won't get your ass kicked. You might be bigger than me but trust me I will always get my revenge. Keep your hands to yourself and we will both have a safer, less eventful night.

Here is my review of It btw..(you may have to copy and paste the link.
http://zombiesinmyblog.com/andy-muschiettis-version-of-it-doesnt-clown-around/

upcomming blogs..goat youga, IT revoew, american horror story..and..wine?

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This is not reality...

I'm tired and I'm worn out this week. I should be writing a review on Mr. Mercedes over at zombiesinmyblog.com but I couldn't get this out of my mind. I was in bed last night..going over my week. It's been a crazy week. Not crazy in the way most people mean when they say crazy. I don't mean busy. I don't mean hectic, although it has been both of those things. No I actually mean...crazy. I regularly have crazy weeks. Weeks where the thigns that happen to me almost seem unreal. They seem as if they couldn't happen..not unless it was some kind of scripted movie or television show.

Yesterday, as I was walking into a Dollar General I stepped on an ant hill, got covered in ants and was bitten.  The story gets more crazy after that with the manager throwing me out of the store for taking my shoes off due to the ants. Who does this happen to? What is the likelihood? What was the likelihood that last years id fall off of my patio..a whopping twelve feet trying to put bird food in my feeder.  How about the time I was hit in a convenience store parking lot, knocked backwards as I walked to the door, by someone who speed off as soon as it happened. I could go on. It seems at least once a week some kooky thing happens to me. I have decided there is no way this is reality. There is no way the things that continually happen to me, can be just luck...someone, something must be writing this all out. Perhaps this is a simulation, a game of some kind or just some made up story..i don't know, but what i do know is the likely hood of someone repetitively having outrageous thing happen to them..on a weekly basis..is small, unless they are an actor on some sitcom. I've had pharmacists deny me Sudefed..based on how I look, and Police officers search my car so many time it's insane. All obvious comedy fodder.

The sad thing is I am pretty sure that in what ever simulation or story I'm a character in...I'm not even the lead character. I'm just the nutty side kick. The comedy relief. The person who has random insanity befall them with no clear intent behind it..just laughs. I'm not Julia Roberts in some romantic comedy, I'm her best friend that falls alot and and isnt quite the catch Julia is. I'm the chubby guy in The Hangover...I'm Ron Weasley...Cledus Snow...I'm FREAKING Cameron in Ferris Beulers Day off. That's my role.. the second billed guy all the crap happens too who doesn't get the girl in the end.
It's ok at lest Im' not what's his face guy..

The Basics you need to know about the dark tower

Here are the basics you need to know about the upcoming movie! Watch my video!

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Rick and Morty are part of the Dark Towner Universe...sorta...

 Ok, not EXACTLY but hear me out here. No Stephen King has never written about Rick and Morty, but Rick and Morty sure use plenty of Stephen King book references in the show. Since Rick and Morty come back for their third season tonight and the Dark Tower hits theaters on Friday, I thought I'd include all the Stephen King references (and other horror characters) that are in the show...so far. Honestly, I think me and the creators would be good drinking buddies.

1) Lawnmower Dog-

The second episode and they already are  paying homage to Kings work. The Lawnmower dog is, of course, a reference to the Stephen King short story the Lawnmower man. The episode also pulls from Animal farm, A Night mare on Elm Street and Inception. Oh! and the "Freddy" character says bitch a lot.. like a certain drug dealer we all know.

2.). Something Ricked This Way Comes-
 The title is a reference to Ray Bradbury's novel and film of the same name, Something Wicked This Way Comes. The Show however is pretty much based on the Stephen King book/movie, Needful things. Not to mention that the episode also references Pet Cemetery. Other references include Summer finding and using a monkey's Paw during the episode and the song The devil went down to Georgia is kinda referenced as Mr. Needful plays the fiddle

3.)  A Rinkle in Time-
 The Langoliers (book and TV show reference)
It's possible that the 4th dimensional beings in this episode are a reference to the monsters from the Langoliers. (the langoliers is about monsters who eat the past)







Other interesting Horror References 


M. Night Shamanaliens-The episode pulls from Inception, the name from the director.

Rick Potion #9-In this episode Rick and Morty Cronenberg the world. That's a reference to David Cronenberg the dude famous for all those monster movies in the 80s. Also Summer repeats a Jaws monologue.

.Auto Erotic Assimilation-This episode is a play on Invasion of the Body Snatchers. It also mentions face huggers from the movie Aliens.

Look who's Purging Now-The Purge..obviously.

Lastly, one of Summer's teachers was a Vampire! In Big trouble in little Sanchez her coach was a vampire.